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Phyzix,
I got married in Jan. we had been together exactly 1 year. After the marriage and honeymoon she was having trouble adjusting and moved out. She wanted us to work on us. I thought we were and then she decided she wanted a divorce.
That was 2 months ago. Now we date and are rekindling what we had before we got married. It's tough but from my situation I can say that the time apart has allowed both of us to see what went wrong and to work on the matters we needed to.
Now communication is so much better, the attraction has come back and the fun and love we shared is back, because we worked on our individual problems and our couple problems.
I can't say this will help you, but I am answering your question that YES, couples do get back together after seperating, as long as that is what both of them want.
When my wife moves back in will it work? Hopefully. One thing we both learned was when we lived together we had started taking each other for granted and had stopped listening to each other. So she bitched and I ignored and pushed her away.
Sometimes we need to step back see what the problem is and then tackle it. We have and we are doing quite well now.
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I just love people who use the excuse "I use/do this because I LOVE the feeling/joy/happiness it brings me" and expect you to be ok with that as you watch them destroy their life blindly following. My response is, "I like to put forks in an eletrical socket, just LOVE that feeling, can't ever get enough of it, so will you let me put this copper fork in that electric socket?"
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