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I'm with Maleficent, lurkette and analog. I don't think she's cheating on you, but it sounds like she doesn't want to get out of her comfort zone. I don't think anybody reading this thread believes she's going to be heading up to New York with you in a few years' time.
She isn't leaving her comfort zone, and her parents aren't the ones holding her back. I can't imagine a situation where her parents wouldn't let her go out, and instead would just go on a family cruise at night. That sounds way beyond odd to me. If her parents won't let her go out then she'll be sitting in front of the TV on a Friday night being grumpy, not driving around town.
Maybe I'm too cynical.
If you want to give it another chance, tell her that you want to have dinner with her parents (perhaps just her mum, since they're divorced). Plan a nice dinner at a nice place with her mum, her sister, and her, and you can all go out. See how they all react to that. I don't believe they'll go for it, but if you ask them you might get an idea about who's really holding your girlfriend at home. If they don't want to go to dinner then they might be holding her back, but if they say yes and want to go, then it's most likely your girlfriend who doesn't want to leave the nest.
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