You mentioned that after your second child, she got the shot... I'm assuming depo-provera?
Just from personal experience, that stuff is bad ju-ju. My Ex changed within a few months of getting it. She became incredibly moody, and arguments over the "small stuff" almost broke us up a few times. Her whole personality changed.
Combine that with the fact that she feels she is missing the best time of her life; tied down with 2 kids, a husband, and mounting debt.
You could salvage the relationship if you are both willing to make sacrifices. Whether or not it's worth it is up to you.
p.s. Don't quit your job until you have something better lined up.
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