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Originally Posted by doncalypso
You haven't provided too much background info concerning the status of your marriage prior to your wife dropping that bombshell on you. But assuming that everything was just fine prior to this I'd say that she's either been cheating on you with another man and can't bring herself to admit it to you or else she's found someone else that caught her attention and is trying to break things off in order to pursue something else with him.
I know my prognosis sounds extremely grim and pessimistic, but I don't see any other way someone could just one day wake up and tell you they want to separate when everything has been going relatively alright between the two of you.
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Strangely enough, this is exactly what happened to a couple I know. One day he moved out, saying he needs to figure things out, becasue he's not sure iof they even fit together, since they are so different. All this came after 4 years of a steady relationship. It turned out, as it usually does, that he found someone else. As grim as it may be, apparently this is what happens a lot.