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Originally Posted by phyzix525
So again I would have to ask how much should I let her go? should it be ok if she wants to see someone else? should we continue to have sex? would we go out at all or do we just not see eachother unless she is dropping off the kids? She has said that she will go to a marriage councilour, but when I asked her today if she would fight to keep our marriage she said no, but that might change cause I really don't want to get a divorce, I just need so time.
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She's an adult, you can't truly stop her from doing anything, she has to want to stay with you...
Should it be ok if she wants to see someone else? Open marriages work for some, and maybe it's something you want to explore, but, doesn't sound like it would fix the problem just further complicate it.
How you work the seperation is entirely up to you. Kids aren't stupid, they see things, I have seen what a bad breakup has done to a friends child, this little girl is going to be in therapy for a long time because the parents can't be civil to one another and they use the kid as a weapon.
Take time away from each other, then revisit hwo you both are feeling.
I'm not sure where I've heard you say that you truly do love her... How do you really feel about her? What's your heart tell you?