Well I have been through this. Best thing is to keep your self very stable, for the kids sake. I she is wanting to party and have a good time this may not be the best thing for the children. I have one child and I have custody of him. The best thing I ever did. I was able to keep my job and life with him. I didn't do it to take him away from his mother but to keep him in a stabe home.
This will also help in the area of child support, and extra expenses such as daycare bills. So get the children in a stabe place. This can be done befor the divorce, and in just a seperation situation. Get a lawyer.
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