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Originally Posted by Averett
Huh?? You've been trying to keep yourself from getting too attached TO YOUR WIFE? That's just... fucked up to say it plainly.
You two both have real big problems. With yourselves and with eachother. What you need to do is sit down with her, either alone or with a counsler and have a frank and honest discussion on if you really want to make the marriage work.
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i cant believe I missed that in his post, and yes it is fucked up.
P -- She going out and not telling you is BS, as long as she is in this relationship with you she needs to tell when and where she is, especially since you two have children together, that need looking after.
This excuse of her "missing going out and how much fun it is" etc etc is a load of crap. A big load of crap.
The two of you are married, thats called commitment. Before she can break that commitment and start fucking all about as she wants she has to divorce you, and even then there is still the children.
Talk to your
WIFE and get your shit sorted NOW, or get a divorce. Your kids don't need the vanishing mommy magic trick in their lives, it not funny, and its sure as hell not fun for them. At this point to me it looks like you need a divorce, but this is not something that I or anyone else can or should decide for you.
The two of you obvioudly, well to me, got married in less-than-ideal circumstances, ans thats looking for trouble right from the start, and something that you should never have done.