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Originally Posted by doncalypso
You haven't provided too much background info concerning the status of your marriage prior to your wife dropping that bombshell on you. But assuming that everything was just fine prior to this I'd say that she's either been cheating on you with another man and can't bring herself to admit it to you or else she's found someone else that caught her attention and is trying to break things off in order to pursue something else with him.
I know my prognosis sounds extremely grim and pessimistic, but I don't see any other way someone could just one day wake up and tell you they want to separate when everything has been going relatively alright between the two of you.
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Unfortunately I must agree. I have a friend, in his 40's, who was deeply in love with his wife. When she reached her sexual peak, she noticed men looking at her and she decided to act upon it. Thing is, before her hormonal revolution, she used to despise guys who looked at her like a piece of meat. Suddenly all that attention went from a con to a pro for her, but killed their relationship.
I for one cannot condone this act, but it's inevitable when it comes to women who feel deprived of a young, fun life. They reach their sexual peak and figure that they can go out and have all the sex that they missed out on when they were in high school and college. The hard thing for us guys is that it isn't hard at all for a woman to get laid; so if she's thinking of cheating on you, she probably already has.
I'm sorry, man. I'll be praying for you.