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Originally Posted by phyzix525
Ok this is some shit. We have been married for three years and have two kids and now all of sudden she wants to separate and try to figure herself out, she does not know what she wants, and by moving in with her sister she thinks that it will somehow put perspective on everything and she will be able to figure out what exactly she wants in life.
So that means that we have to split up the stuff and I will have to quit my job and get one that I won't have to work on weekends seeing as how I will have to watch them for 3 days fri sat and sun. She expects me to pay for the kids to go to day care and she can work on the weekends and go to school during the week days. As for me, I am going to have to move back in with my parents till I find a decent job and can get a place on my own.
So now that I am done ranting I want to know if anyone has ever separated and then got back together? Or does it always end in divorce?
I just can't beleive this, we hardly even fight.
Well if anyones got any suggestions.......thanks
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You haven't provided too much background info concerning the status of your marriage prior to your wife dropping that bombshell on you. But assuming that everything was just fine prior to this I'd say that she's either been cheating on you with another man and can't bring herself to admit it to you or else she's found someone else that caught her attention and is trying to break things off in order to pursue something else with him.
I know my prognosis sounds extremely grim and pessimistic, but I don't see any other way someone could just one day wake up and tell you they want to separate when everything has been going relatively alright between the two of you.