maleficent

Sounds like you got married pretty young, and now she thinks she's missed out on all the "fun" of being single, when she was home being a mom and a wife. The grass isn't always greener, which, I am sure she will find out soon enough, but, it's probably something that she's got to figure out for herself.

Uprooting the kids is a tough situation, but kids are stronger than you think, they can take it, just don't stop loving them, and take care to not badmouth mom in front of them.

Seperation doesn't have to end in divorce, but it's best to prepare. I'd talk to a lawyer, about a custody agreement, and about child support.

Take a deep breath, and figure out what your options are right now... Why do you have to change jobs? If you have a job right now, why not work something out so that you aren't overly inconvenienced.

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