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Originally Posted by trevlya006
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i got serious with her the other day and asked her why she wont just dump the other kid, and she said that she was affraid that she would hurt him... also the kid has a lower source of income.. also she dosn't want to put the kid out of a job because if they broke up then they would still be working together and he "would shurly quit"..
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Well it looks like you might have to put her on the spot about her feelings for you. If you are important enough to her, she will work out her problems with the other guy (him quitting his job, hurting him etc.)
She seems to want to not have to deal with the unpleasentries of a break up but still lead you on, until the relationship finally fizzles out. This is completely unfair to you. She could still date you and go to homecoming with the other guy.
You need to tell her she needs to make a decision, she is leading both of you guys on by not wanting to make up her mind or take any action in one direction or the other.