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Ugh, trevlya006.
Listen man, you sound like a helluva nice guy. Very considerate, which seems to be pretty damn rare in males nowadays. I'm a nice guy too, but you have to know when it's time to put yourself ahead of other people. Get selfish.
Enough waiting around! If you wait for her relationship with this guy to dwindle down you're going to be sitting on your ass for months and months on end wishing you had the balls to do something, praying for a solution to the problem. Well guess what? You got the solution in the first reply to this topic!
You can also be a nice guy and think about this in terms of how she feels. She's stuck with a "boyfriend" who she apparently highly dislikes. She doesn't want to be with him anymore. She wants YOU. She wants you!
Do the girl a favour and ask her to homecoming. Screw "Dom" or whatever his name is. Just ask the girl out to homecoming and tell her how much you care about her. Tell her that you know she feels the same way too and that she'll be much better off with you. You'd be making the both of you extremely happy.
If you don't act on this, then you're just losing out man. No one to blame but yourself. The way things are going right now, I could make a case that because of guys like you the adage of "Nice guys finish last" came to life.
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