Okay, I hope I didn't offend you with the CC remark. I just know people who start at a CC to get their grades up enough to go to a University.
The thing is, though, that the friends you make in college are going to be your friends for 4 years. Speaking from experience, their friendship might even continue to a grad-school later. To cut yourself off from friends just because you MIGHT not keep up with them is very short sighted.
To take it to an extreme, it would be like saying you shouldn't get married because at some point one of you is going to die, so why bother?
Does she not like the social scene you're into? Do you two have common friends who might encourage her to go out? Could you set up some sort of party/get together that would let her take a few hours off and have a good time WITH you?
I'm just tossing those ideas out there.
I'm not getting a very supportive vibe from her to you. It sounds like she's trying to control who you are and what you do. "If you're going to be with me, you're gonna be social only in the way I want you to be."
What does she like to do when it is just the two of you? Do you two go out ever, or is it just the two of you on the phone?
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