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Originally Posted by bscox00
I'm not trying to sound mean or insensitive or snobby, but I can see some people feeling somewhat bad about themselves because they are going to a community college. I'm not certain this is the case here, but it is a possibility.
However, if you are not able to find a common ground between working and playing, you two won't be together much longer. She will resent you for going out and you will resent her for making you stay in. It already sounds like this has started.
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She actually chose the community college over the university in our hometown. She says she likes school, but doesn't feel like she needs to go out and have fun with friends. She says, "those people won't be there forever but what you learn in school will be, so why waste my time with them." I feel that is true with some people but I still want to go out and have some fun. Not everyone is going to become a best friend you'll talk to for the rest of your life. I really hope we can work this out, I don't want to lose her.
Thanks for the reply.