Sounds to me like she's uncomfortable with you going out and maybe meeting someone else. You're wanting to live life while she's working her ass off.
I'm not trying to sound mean or insensitive or snobby, but I can see some people feeling somewhat bad about themselves because they are going to a community college. I'm not certain this is the case here, but it is a possibility.
However, if you are not able to find a common ground between working and playing, you two won't be together much longer. She will resent you for going out and you will resent her for making you stay in. It already sounds like this has started.
I dated a girl who was a law student while I was still in college. While I didn't party my ass off, I was able to go out a lot more than she was and she began to resent me.
Good luck finding a middle ground. Perhaps you could suggest that unless she relaxes a little, she will burn out very quickly.
I'm here for you, bro.
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