well, since that night I have given it a lot of thought, and had several discussions with my other half. If placed in the situation again I am now certain that she is good with it,
which makes me good with it, so if she looked at me and asked what to do again I would certainly say "do it". If that will happen anytime soon, or ever, I do not know. Its not anything I intend to push for, but I will be ok with giving control over too the little head next time
