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Originally posted by clues_blues
hearing it from your perspective, yes...
it sounds trite, but you deserve to be with someone who wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them... also, from your comments, this girl seems to be on a different maturity level than you.
good luck and keep your head up. whether or not you have to move on you have got to keep a confident vibe - chix can smell it - even this one.
c_b
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It won't do me any service if I just gave you my side of the story.
Her side of the story:
I love my son, but I cannot be a good mother for him when I am financially hurting, depressed, and unhappy. Moving to (blank city) allows me to get on top of my bills and get my head set right so I can return home in 3 months and be the best mom I can be. I fought a lot with my boyfriend, we're just too different.
My response: We did fight quite a bit, but it became less of a problem towards the end when we allowed ourselves more space. Speaking to the father of her son, a guy who has known her for 10 years, he has told me that she has always known to put herself first and while normally a good mother, has never made him her #1 priority. Even when financially secure, she was often unhappy. So getting on top of her debts has little promise in making her a better mother for her child.