Well I've had good and bad experiences with this. My first girlfriend, who I started dating when I was 16 got upset when i went away to school, and I only went about 2 hours away. She couldn't stand the fact that I was talking to other girls, and that I wouldn't talk to her every free minute I had, and we ended up breaking up. But then a couple of months later, I started talking to me current girl more and more on the phone (I went to high school with her, but didn't know her all that well) and eventually just by talking on the phone I really got to know her and now we've been going out for almost a year.
So it really depends on how dedicated you are/want to be to the relationship. It seems like even though you've been with her for 3 years, you're not really that interested anymore, and if that's the case, then you should cut it off ASAP. But just so you know, the long distance thing can work if you really want it to, and she does too, and everything can turn up alright.
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