Thanks for all the suggestions. Sometimes I feel like I'm just imagining it because I feel bad about the accusations she throws my way. Sometimes I feel like I'm overreating to be concerned about it. I think I will at least talk to some of the close family who can help me intervene before it gets out of hand or before the condition can worsen if it is something that can be helped. I HOPE.
lol I doubt I can carry all 290lbs of her to the Dr.
P.S. I just thought - she has extremely high blood pressure. Could blood pressure have something to do with affecting memory?? I know it might be a long shot. The last time she was in the Dr's office her Bp was something like 150/100. She refuses to take any blood pressure medication. If I can find information suggesting that the two things might be related I could possibly show it to her and convince her to take some medication for it. She's been struggling with it and her weight for over 3 years. I think those two are interconnected as well.
Any possibility that the Bp could be affecting her memory??
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