virgin

Thanks to everyone, you shed some light on what I said/did. There is some truth that I have a degree of jealousy, I would love to be his age and have the chance to go to Europe on someone elses dime.

In my defense however, I would like to point out that this guy is seriously anti-social, never had a date, condescending, and so far all the coddling hasn't worked. He even still sees a Pediatrician !

One more anecdote about my brother. When we buried my Grandmother last year, we were both pallbearers, I couldn't believe how hard it was to carry the casket and was sweating like a pig He wasn't ( remember he is morbidly obese) I pointed out to him that when we remove the casket from the Hearse at the graveyard he better be lifting, or I will kick his ass, and magically the next time we lift the casket, it's a lot easier, and catboy is now huffing and puffing.
I have vented now. Thanks for listening to you all.