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Old 09-08-2004, 08:59 AM   #9 (permalink)
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A. they wer both very drunk.,
Bad news...good to wait till everyone's sober.

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B. what if she decides she likes pussy as well as I do and drops me like a bad habit.
Not likely to happen - speaking from experience here. Ratbastid and I recently started having sex with a couple who are friends of ours, and I really, really like pussy but I still love my husband. She's not going to leave you over this - the worst that will happen is she'll want to do it again.

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C. I've always thought that fantasys were meant to be thought of, not carried out.
It depends - there are some fantasies that are probably better left fantasies, particularly where there's a potential for someone to get hurt. This can qualify as one of those - you're definitely opening a can of worms that could cause some trouble if you don't lay the groundwork: Communication, communication, communication, and clear ground rules.

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D. What unknown consequences would acting on this bring.
Aye, there's the rub. You don't know what consequences it could bring - could bring you closer together, could cause trouble for your marriage. It's hard to predict how people are going to react. The question is whether the experience is worth the likely consequences.

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E. Said friend is very attractive, but we both work with her and she is the niece of the man that owns our company.
Eek...bad news. If something goes horribly wrong you could be in a very uncomfortable position.

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F. She has been around the block....several times would be my guess.
So if you decide to do anything, take precautions.

Good luck if you decide to go for it, but proceed with caution and eyes wide open.
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