Yep, that's the problem with older anything. Baggage and lots of it. They have usually been around the block a few times and are dragging a lot of stuff around. Stuff you don't need to deal with at 19. Set some ground rules now, and roll with it. If she balks then you had a little fun and can move on. If she aggrees to the ground rules of it not being serious, then it looks like you found yourself the ultimate *uck buddy!
Been there, done that. Easily 15 years my senior. No, she was NOT a senior, but did have a little grey hair. She was like 38 at the time. Very memorable but was glad when it did end. I could move on to younger and faster things.
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