Make sure you set aside guidelines ahead of time. Communication is VERY VERY important. If someone is unclear then things could go wrong, if not during the actual act, then afterwards. Ie. is it just a one night thing, do you expect it to be a regular occurance? Is it just this one person? What if they want to get together without you to swing? I mean all of this stuff should be considered, especially since she's your wife and not just a random girl?
Just some things to think about and my two cents.
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