Nice to see you back --
Keep in mind, I'm a klutz, I'd fall over - but in theory...
\Wear the lingerie underneath a shirt and skirt that has buttons and you can remove seductively
Fingerless gloves. - removing one by one
Some sort of choker
Stockings (maybethat attach to the lingerie- a garter belt I think might be a little too much extra material.)
Shoes? Ankle straps are sexy - but hard to take off... so it depends on how long you plan on leaving them on.
Fredericks, I think, sell the thigh high thingies that go over your shoes and end up looking like thigh high boots...
Definitely do the body glitter - and maybe a really cool fake tattoo (if you don't have any real ones)
Being overweight? So what? You are doing this for him, he loves you and is going to love this treat... Wear what you will be comfortable in - it's hard to feel all sexy if you are worried that your tummy is sticking out -- Keep telling yourself that you are beautiful and sexy... and desirable