From what you said, I don't think you used the words "grow the fuck up" but if you sent that email with any intent other than to help him realize the amazing oppurtunity he's been give then he's not the only one with some growing to do.
If your father and his mother are willing to get that upset over an email then you should just smooth the situation over and leave life to teach the lessons your brother needs - eventually they'll grow tired of him and he'll realize that in the real world things aren't so easy...
Your brother's the "loser" and you're the "ass" but atleast he didn't know any better.
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