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my folks divorced when i was 11. pretty tough stuff - she kicked dad out, i didnt see my dad for 3months, and at the time, i was his shadow. for well over a year, i was fed bullshit about each parents from the other - i didnt know what to believe. i still dont on some things that i was told all that time ago. mum entered into a lesbian relationship, and has ever been with the same lady ever since.
me and my older brother both have trust issues when it comes to relationships because of this, altough i'm working on it, he's just trying to ignore it, which isnt working.
until about 8months ago, when i was first introduced to my gf's parents, did i see what a loving marriage can do for young children. since ive seen what it can be, and compare it to what my parents had, its nothing like that. for their dad to come home and be happy to see him - rather than run and hide like we used to was strange.. i remember thinking to myself 'that aint right'... but sure enough, thats what it is, and thats what hopefully one day i can pull off myself.
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