I do have young daughters. (My second one was born when I was 50) One is 21 and the other is 27. I caught the 27 year old when she was 17 having sex with her much older boyfriend. I sent the cops to scare him. I did not file charges. She is married now, but was very active sexually before marriage. I counseled her as best I could, but had little effect. If she were posted on line at 17 I would pose some very serious questions of her and would inform her not to do that again or I would involve the law. Upon reaching age 18 any decision she made sexually was of her chose. As long as it did not disrupt family unity or create an untenable relationship with others. My youngest daughter is very guarded--not disclosing anything, let alone her sex life. If she did anything, it was certainly not in our house. I never was aware of anything. When she became 20 I learned that she is a lesbian. I am into alternate life styles myself and have no judgement for my daughters.
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