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I've been there too. I pledged, and was on the brink of joining when I had my epiphany. The question to ask yourself is this:
Are there better social settings in which you can meet people with whom you could get along with equally well? (Holy convoluted, Batman!)
ok, to rephrase, could you make friends that are equally cool, maybe even cooler, by joining other societies that interest you? As it turns out, I figured that these guys were all hanging out together because... well, they needed someone to hang out with. If that's the only reason you are there, bug out.
I had some baaad experiences after I told the guys I was done, and not going to complete the pledging process. Like physical-assault bad. It sort of showed me their true colors.
I know you said that you are bailing, and I think you made the right choice. I also think that getting involved in research now is a great plan (try functional morphology, the Wake group at Berkely is a powerhouse). Remember to keep your eye on the ball (the ball doesn't have to be medical school, by the way).
good luck
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"Strange things are afoot at the Circle K, Ted"
-Bill
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