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Ah thanks... but now I'm leaning towards not pledging.... I realized that I don't exactly see the point of joining now, like I don't see what joining will do for me anymore. I know that sounds kinda selfish, but I probly should start looking out for myself more often. I was being nice to the guys at the frat and I know I could fit in there, but I'm trying to figure out who I'm actually joining the frat for. Like is it really for myself, or is it for the frat guys just because I'm being nice? Obviously if it's for 2nd reason, I definitely am not going through with it, but if I'm actually doing it for myself, I need to see what it will accomplish for me.
I can already tell my grades are gonna take a hit if I do spend the time to pledge. Damn, I'm alredy falling asleep in my classes, and it's only the first week. Given, I could get a little better with sleeping and handling the whole workload, but still I'm not sure how much that would help in the long run.
I'm really trying not to feel like I'm letting those guys down if I do not pledge, but then I also can't let that influence me in my choice to join. Does my train of thought here sound good? I guess what I need to know are what other advantages there are to joining a frat, other than being able to hang out all the time. Thanks again...
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