FallenAvatar, I didn't feel like you were disapproving; I just wanted to add to the discussion that it is possible to love more than one person and express that love sexually.
And adam, it IS a lot of work. We aren't even really in a committed relationship with this couple, like living with them and planning on a long-term life together, although they are our best friends and we could all see spending our lives in close proximity. But it does require a high degree of commitment to our primary relationships and to the well-being and happiness of all the people involved, and definitely takes responsible, brutally honest, and constant communication. All of those things (and the sex!!!) are reasons, in my book, that this is a good thing. It's good practice for being completely honest and open.
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