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Originally Posted by FallenAvatar
As for your coversation on Monogamy. I think it is possible to love more than one woman, or more than one man.. but I don't see that sexually possible. I can only have one woman, I could only share that with her. Love that envolves sexuality is still love but I find it to be a different love. I can't possible begin to understand how some can cheat and search for other lovers when they already have one. I just doesn't make sense to me. I guess it's a way out for those to chicken to talk it out or end it. I'm sure there could be exceptions to this rule where as there are two women and one man, or vise versa ... but I think that's far and few between. The only time I could think to even except that would maybe be twins. Twins usually share a special bond and I guess in a way they could share a lover, without crossing the line of sharing each other.
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I don't know how to explain it except to say that it is, in fact, possible. I admit it's hard to understand, but I absolutely love ratbastid, and I absolutely love our "umfriends" D&S. Do I have a primary connection to ratbastid? Yes, but our love for each other doesn't preclude our expressing our love for D&S sexually. The way we've managed to understand it is the concept that love is not a finite supply: if I give love/sexual attention to D, that doesn't mean I have less love for ratbastid. *shrug*