I will agree that sex isn't always necessary to express love, but then again Sexuality itself isn't just confined to "sex". Sex appeal as well as smaller acts such as petting or kisses or even cuddling is still sexuality. I have thought about it and I would love to be able to express my sexuality whenever I could. Yet, as I think about it many would take it out of hand. I know the worldn't couldn't sucessfully live without the expression of sexuality at some point(s).
As for your coversation on Monogamy. I think it is possible to love more than one woman, or more than one man.. but I don't see that sexually possible. I can only have one woman, I could only share that with her. Love that envolves sexuality is still love but I find it to be a different love. I can't possible begin to understand how some can cheat and search for other lovers when they already have one. I just doesn't make sense to me. I guess it's a way out for those to chicken to talk it out or end it. I'm sure there could be exceptions to this rule where as there are two women and one man, or vise versa ... but I think that's far and few between. The only time I could think to even except that would maybe be twins. Twins usually share a special bond and I guess in a way they could share a lover, without crossing the line of sharing each other.
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