Well sorry to say that I didn't read every single reply word for word, just kind of skimmed through them, so I may end up repeating something somebody else has already said. Anyway...There are to many people who shouldn't have kids but are to irrisponsible to make sure it doesn't happen. So I don't think you are being sellfish at all. In fact people who are more worried about themselves and having a good time and don't take the proper precautions to not get pregnant are the ones who are selfish because in a lot of cases the kids are the ones that suffer. And I like what you said, that you would rather regret not having them, than regret having them, so I applaude your choice.
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