Sorry to hear that you didn't enjoy your first experience, but I think its not all that uncommon the first time. It's probably just because you were nervous, and very tense. When you tense up, your butt tightens up and then it starts to hurt, then you tense up more, and you get no where. Next time, if you can just relax, and don't try to rush anything, it may go better. Have him start with his finger next time. It may take a couple of times with just fingers before you are ready for his penis. A small slim vibrator works well, too (in fact, that can be fun while you are having regular sex, to slide a vibrator or his lubed finger in). Good luck next time, don't rush, and relax...
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