Teasing can be a great motivator/stimulator.
I have two (formerly) top secret moves that are fail safe.
#1 I write erotic literature and leave it for my gf. I'm not talking about simple porn, nor about sappy novels. I am very certian to put a lot of effort into a decent story. I was never into english in school, but if they taught this, I would have goetten a 4.2 gpa. At first my stories were simple, only a few pages. After a while (and a few girlfriends) they became very involved and, according to critics, quite good. I wouldn't dare publish them, but I find that women are very sensual when they are partially involved in a fantasy.
#2 The massage...sort of. Pressure point massages are supposedly used to heal parts of the body by massage. Have you ever seen the foot model in which the foot is broken up into areas of different colors which each account for an area of the body? This is probably what you were looking at. It is similar to acupuncture, but without the needles. Well I took some time to study these techniques. Ther are certian areas or locations on the body that can, if massaged properly, induce a pre-orgasmic state without sexual stimulation. There are also ways to lessen the pain associated with women who are new to intercourse, and are still sensitive.
While I will not reveal specifics about either of these ways, I'm sure most of you can figure them out with some study and some practice.
Oh, learn the massage from a pro, not a book. Trust me.
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