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I sympathize, but not in the way you might expect. (see the tubal vs vasectomy thread). I've had the one and only child I ever wanted. Now Im with a new man with whom I plan to spend the rest of my life...he's 31 and KNOWS without a doubt that he never wants kids of his own...he's happy with mine...but Im still struggling with the concept of him being so young and knowing without a doubt that he doesnt want to procreate....I struggle with feeling selfish if I let him have a V...at least I know that if I have a tubal that if, god forbid I died, and he found himself with another woman say in 5 years, that he might have changed his mind about the kids.
I know that I feel that way because I've had a child...and my biological clock stopped ticking when I had her.....but its hard for a person to completely understand that another person could be so certain. I love Dave with all my heart and know him better than I know myself...but I still have difficulty wrapping my mind around his definate knowledge of what he wants....I can see why it would be more difficult for a person not "emotionally" involved to trust your instincts.
I say if you're that certain you keep going until you find a doctor that will do it for you.
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I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!
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