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Originally Posted by CanadianCommie
the number of partners IS a key factor because that type of trial and error is still the most in-depth learning experience, but not being a total dumbass about the whole process of bumping uglies- no matter how many partenrs you've had- provides a huge advantage.
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Boost for confidence but not key for skill in my opinion. There are other ways to become a confident lover. Like pinkie said, communication is key to building up confidence and skill in bed.
As I see it you think that no matter what, having had many partners is a good way of learning. To an extent I can agree with you on that, but it only works if you take the time and learn what they all have to teach. As I have noticed there are many who don't.
What I react against is the generalization that several sexpartners is regarded as a guarantee that the person is expereinced (a good lover). I know for a fact that this isn't true yet so many people seem to think this way..