| Gotenks came close to my opinion.  A swat for emphasis, often on the hand, is usually enough to get a child's attention that something is seriously wrong to do.  It should be done judiciously and thoughtfully, not in anger.  And by the time a child is 6 or 7 there should be no more need for corporal punishment.  By that time you can reason with them and/or apply punishments that they will understand.  These work best if you have developed a strong relationship based on love and trust. |