maleficent

Everyone is entitled to make their own choices, and then the person has to live with their choices, for them, it's the right decision at the time... When a woman chooses to have an abortion, it's the right choice for her, no reasonable person questions that choice. The woman has to live with that decision.

You are making the choice to not ever have children, your choice, it's something you will have to live with, which you seem happily willing to do. No reasonable person should question your choice.

People have to live with their choices, as long as someone is willing to do that, who are we to question that. Which leads me to an aquaintance, who used to be a friend but sucked all the friend life out of me. Based on her choices, that is to have some fun and not have a baby in her 20's and 30s, she's now at age 45 and going thru all sorts of fertility treatments to try and become pregnant, unsuccessfully. She hasn't quite grasped the concept that her choices got her to where she is, I'm not sure she's being all that reasonable either.

I think you have thought out your choice, weighed all the options and are making the right decision for you. The world does not children that the parents either don't want or are ambivelent about.

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