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Originally Posted by Meier_Link
Here's the deal. My girlfriend of about one and a half years has been treating me strangely. We usually see each other at least every other day. This week I saw her Saturday and briefly on Sunday. The rest of the week I have just been neglected and put off. Maybe it's just me, but here's how it has been: doesn't answer my phone calls, when she calls me back our conversation is short; she's doing other things, when we get off the phone there's no "I love you" or anything, just bye.
Maybe I'm just blowing this out of proportion in my mind, but I'd like to know your thoughts on the matter. I'm not sure if I should make a big deal about it, calmly state that she's hurting my feelings, or give her an ultimatum. Leaves me paranoid; has she found someone else? is she mad at me? is she just sick of me? I really hate being put off and she knows this...
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Are you sure she's neglecting you?... Or could it be that she used to smother you and all of a sudden you feel neglected because she's not showering you with an overload of attention?
But then again, if she used to be more lovey-dovey and all of a sudden turned cold it could be a sign that she's not being faithful or that she has intentions of leaving you.