I am nearly always able to keep it up after an orgasm, and always has been. I'll try to explain what happens, but it's the normal thing for me so I don't think about it much.
I find that I inhale deeply, holding my breath for a while and then exhale and inhale lightly while keeping most of the air in my lungs. At the same time I relax my whole body for a few seconds and then I am ready go. My guess though, is that it's mostly mental, just like coming too early.
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