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Old 08-19-2004, 02:59 PM   #21 (permalink)
Mantus
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Good guide arch13,

If I may add some tips of my own. This is just an example of what one can do. Use it as something to spark creativity and ideas. Yet the best ideas will come for your girl.

Clothing will be restrictive here, so do what you can.

Guys, don’t go right for the mark. Start by our rubbing her thighs, stroking her hips and groping her but. Do broad long strokes first such as moving your hand all the way from her thigh, past her hips up to her breasts and then back down again. Eventually start to focus around groin by rubbing her inner thighs.

As you hand finally makes it down there avoid the sweet spot. You want to tease her first. Play with her pubic area, soft strokes and rubbing work well here. Move your hand closer and rub the spot where her leg meets the groin. Move your hand up to the pubic area and back down to massage the other side.

All this doesn’t have to take long. A couple of strokes will do but anticipation works wonders for getting a girl aroused. Meanwhile kiss her neck, lips, breast or whatever you like if it feels right. Sometimes simply gazing into her eyes can have the same effect. Judge for yourself, every situation is differnt.

Once you reach her vulva don’t go inside yet tease her some more by rubbing the outside of it.

Now for the important part; place one finger just bellow her muffin (I believe the spot is called the perineum) and very softly stoke up so you barely even part her lips. Repeat the same stroke a couple of times going deeper each time. Don’t attempt to enter her just yet. If she is wet, you have done a great job If not don’t be discouraged. It just means you have to do some more petting, be patient, it will be worth it and it’s all good fun.

As you finger goes deeper between her lips your strokes will eventually leave you finger right on her clit at which point I hand over the reigns to arch13’s great guide.

A final word: the most common mistake guys make is over stimulation. The area is VERY sensitive when a girl is turned on and the softest strokes are often the best ones. Pay attention, ask qeustions and you should be great.

Have fun.
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