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I don't know if this is a general thing for most guys, but for me what I hate the most in guys is when they ignore you. Like when you are so frustrated with something and you just want to talk and lay things out in the open, guys can just turn off and pretend it's not happening to them. And then they think they can go away and leave it and then come back and it's ok, when really all they've done is leave whatever was bugging her, to fester, quietly seething. What's so difficult about talking? In the end if you don't talk, then resentments grow and it's worse overall. Maybe I'm just ranting, I don't know.
Anybody else out there know what I'm talking about?
Also when they pretend they're listening to you when really they're concentrating on the formula one/comupter game/the paper/anything but you...
I think someone else already said here that another pet peeve is always being last on a guy's list of priorities...ditto
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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