Break up.
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She was in an abusive relationship when I met her and she pulled herself out, but I think I provided the impetus.
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The reason that this is on your mind is because you feel guilty. You cannot stay in a relationship out of guilt. You know that it isn't working for you, and it is not your responsibility to protect this girl from getting into other negative situations.
Her willingness to do so much for you is genuine, but I'm sure that you don't like it because of how alienating it is. I was in a similar situation, and I realized that the Jehova's Witness upbringing is essential. From birth, girls in that religion are taught that the only things that give their lives meaning are God and being married. Of course she'll do everything she can for you, but you'll likely never gain that discourse and connection that you want with her. I know that it is possible to find something better, and if you stay with her that shows that you are willing to just settle for something unsatisfactory.