Okay well thanks for all the input people. I guess your input has made me see how maybe she came to her decision. Helps me come to terms with her decision; understand it.
And it has helped me clarify my own feelings about the situation (writing them down helps
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Originally Posted by TM875
Let's summize, shall we? If you can see yourself, five years down the line, happily attending her wedding (to someone other than you), then you should stay friends. If the thought of that makes you want to rip your innards out, then perhaps you should let her drift out of your life.
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This is a good way to see it. I guess at the moment I tend towards ripping my innards out, but that will change, I'm sure.
As for the on call relationship. I'll see what happens. I agree that its probably not a good idea because of the hurt feelings, but the temptation might become too big. I don't think it'd be an impediment to any new relationship; we can always stop when and if the new relationship comes along for either of us (yeah it'll be a dissapointment for the other... I realize).
I'm gonna go talk to her tommorow evening. Keep you posted...