I think it is entirely possible for her to decide it's not going to work after 2 weeks, especially with you spending so much time together. I generally know whether I like someone within the first 5 minutes, but sometimes I'll give someone the benefit of the doubt for a while if I think they might be having a bad day or something.
It's possible that she would fall in love with you anyway, because love is hard to resist, but it wouldn't be a good idea. Trust me, I learned the hard way--that kind of "forced" love takes a lot of coddling and will eventually exhaust you.
With that in mind, I would say NO to the on-call relationship. They never end well and someone's heart is always broken, from what I've seen. Plus, they make it difficult to find someone you really want as your real relationship, because the new girl will probably be turned off by your fuckbuddy, plus your lingering feelings will keep you from getting out there and meeting people.
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