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Old 08-19-2004, 06:52 AM   #8 (permalink)
maleficent
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Originally Posted by TurbineSlut
But she'd only known me for a week... I mean, hardly much time to get to know someone? Or do you think that you can have a general feeling of how things are gonna work out fairly quickly after meeting someone?
Sometimes you either like someone, or you don't, for a romantic relationship, for any kind of relationship, and that is nothing negative about you. It takes time to fall in love, but you know immediately whether or not the potential is there for love for someone.

Two weeks is more than enough time to decide whether a person is right for you or not. Too many people waste months and months with a person they are iffy about and end up in a long term relationship with a person they have no business being in a long term relationship with. If it's not there, it's not there, and that's not saying anything is wrong with you... It's the time, it's the place, it's a combination of things.

Not all women want to get married and settle down, she's 28 and enjoying her life, maybe she just doesn't want to get tied down to one guy.
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