I'm going to say, if for no other reason then I am sick of feeling like a dirty old man, tell her HELL NO. I got to the mall, and I see these 14 year old girls walking around with pants around their knees and thongs sticking up in the back, and I have thoughts that no man my age should about these kids. I have the self control to limit myself to TRYING not to look out of the corner of my eye, but there are some poeple out there that don't. Like the 14 year old boys. I remember what I was up to at that age, and trust me when I say, you want your little angel looking as drab and as far away from kids like I was as can be. You are the father. As hard as it might be, put the Daddy Foot down. After getting permision for the wife, of course.