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Originally posted by roboshark
You're saying you're afraid that she might get pregnant, and you'd want her to have an abortion, and she'll refuse, leaving you both "stuck" with an infant you can't take care of. So, you're thinking of ending the relationship because of the minute chance that this might happen?
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Originally posted by Amano
Yes, precisely.
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So, if I understand you correctly, you'd
stay with her, provided that she's prepared to
abort a child in the very rarest of cases where she might get pregnant from you.
Now, I'm sure you have no idea what it is like to have an abortion, but there's probably girls out there that do and can back me up: this sounds like an extremely selfish, asshole thing to demand of a girl. I'm sure abortion can be a very intense and traumatizing experience. I really don't see how you have the right, or nerve, to ask something like that from the girl. Now, just to be on the safe side here: I'm not against abortions. If people wanna have abortions, let 'em. But that doesn't mean you can just consider it as an obvious solution to your problems.
(I'm suprised nobody else actually picked up on this aspect of the original post.)