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I'm not too sure roboshark has a good grasp of the odds related to the effectiveness of various birth control methods. Neither am I. In any case I would say better safe than sorry, especially with your concerns, Amano.
The way I see things man is that you are afraid of the consequences of having a child during such a finacially insecure time in your life, compounded with the fact your girlfriend will keep any child you do have accidentally. I feel you have to search within yourself to either
1. get over your fear and keep on lovin' that special girl of yours
3. Have a messy breakup and start abstinence
2. Abstain from sex while remaining in your relationship with your SO (which may lead to #3)
4. Go half-assed and keep screwing your girl while being scared out of your mind at the small chance of pregancy and it's consequences.
I say go for #1. The chance for pregnancy with 2 forms of concraception is very small, and if you can see yourself marrying this girl you can overcome a little fear.
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